tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-83095746135185895262024-03-13T06:33:42.622-07:00loving life togetherA glimpse into our life. A handsome surf loving & photographer enthusiast Dad. A jewelry making Momma. A beautiful curly haired curious Babe. A tiny Pup. This is us.
Hoping to once again grow our little family through adoption. Please help spread the word to your friends & family.Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger291125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-88052660272368429552013-04-18T20:21:00.001-07:002013-04-18T20:21:13.984-07:00A glimpse of our AdoptionWe are thrilled to be featured over on <a href="http://www.smallfryblog.com/">Small Fry</a> as part of their adoption week.<br />
Check it out <a href="http://www.smallfryblog.com/page/2/">here</a>.<br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Hello!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">We
are Timmy and Niccole the overly excited parents of Ollie and Thor (our
Maltese).<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Prior to being married
Niccole knew that at some point in her life she wanted to adopt children, her
mother was adopted into an LDS family at birth, so naturally adoption had
always been a part of her life. Timmy thought adoption sounded like a great
idea in the future. We enjoyed five fun years of marriage together living in
Salt Lake City and Orange County, California (where we are both natives)
studying, working, traveling and enjoying our lives together with out any
children. After many years of trying to become pregnant without any infertility
treatments the thought popped into our heads that NOW is the time for us to
adopt! DUH! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">The
day our birth mother contacted us we were shocked! We were hit with a flood of
emotions that we still can remember today. Through our correspondence with our
birth mother we got to know each other and felt so much love for her. We had
the great privilege of spending many months with our birth mother and lots of
sleepovers at our home. She was and is like a little sister to Niccole. We grew
to love her more than we can adequately express. She is a dream come true to
us! She gave birth to our sweet angel Ollie in September 2011. We were so
fortunate to be at the hospital with her and got to partake in watching her
love Ollie just as we do. She is incredibly strong. Those days were extremely
emotional for each of us. We were so ecstatic to be parents yet our hearts were
breaking watching the pain in her eyes. We cannot imagine how painful that time
was for her. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Ollie
is the joy of our lives. He is the most beautiful child ever with a wild curly
fro, chunky thighs and a big belly. His rosy cheeks are full, his lips are
luscious and his skin is milky smooth.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>He is the perfect mix of African-American, Panamanian and Caucasian. A
true breathtaking beauty. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">We
have witnessed in our lives a modern day miracle. We are still in awe of our
adoption journey. With out Heavenly Father in our lives this would not be
possible. We can still recall feeling surrounded in so much love through out
many times of the adoption process. The spirit touched us and our birth family
in ways we never had known before. There is not a day that passes that we are
not thinking of our birth mother. It has been a joy to watch her move forward
in her life. She has overcome giant obstacles and continues to thrive. We are
truly grateful to maintain a life long and forever relationship with her. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Niccole
absolutely loves being a stay at home mother. She left her fashion career
behind and has never looked back. She spoils Ollie each day. Which is evident
in the mass amounts of photos she continually posts on Instagram!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Timmy is lucky to work for himself with
an office 10 minutes from our home. We spend a lot of time together toting
Ollie all over the place! Timmy enjoys surfing and photographing so each
Saturday you can find us in Laguna on the sand. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Ollie
is now 18 months, the time sure does fly! He is very active and enjoys playing
with our 8-pound pup. But he really needs a sibling!<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>We are eager to grow our family once again through adoption.
We plan to adopt all of our children and pray that once again we can witness
another miracle in our lives.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">To
catch a glimpse into our daily lives and see what we are all about follow us
along on Instagram. What you see is what you get! The good, the sad, the fun,
the boring, its all us.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Niccole
can be found as: littlepetitedesigns <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Tim
can be found as: timtom949<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">We
sure would love for you to help spread the word that we are looking to adopt in
the United States. Thank you for reading along!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">XOXO<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial;">Timmy,
Niccole, Ollie and Thor<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-82283081703733377682013-04-15T20:48:00.001-07:002013-04-15T20:49:16.913-07:00What is Families Supporting Adoption?Families Supporting Adoption {FSA} is an organization sponsored by <a href="http://mormon.org/">The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints</a> {LDS} Family Services, seeks to promote a positive view of adoption. The organization has more than 5,000 members including adoptive couples, birth parents, adults who were adopted, and adopted professionals. There are Chapters of FSA throughout the United States, Canada, and New Zealand. FSA focuses its efforts on four main areas: Outreach, Education, Support, and Activities.<br />
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Outreach : FSA meets with birth parents and families, church groups and community groups to share information and dispel myths about adoption.<br />
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Education and Support : FSA provides education and support to families involved in the adoption process. The Education Committee organizes training meetings to help adoptive parents to enhance their skills to become the best adoptive parents.<br />
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Activities : The Activities Committee plans activities for birth mothers and local FSA chapter for adoptive families, past and present, to promote socialization and support.<br />
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{The above information was provided by LDS Family Services Orange County California}<br />
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I recently spoke to a group of women who are leaders in the LDS church. I shared what FSA means to me and how it has impacted my life. Below is my presentation . . .<br />
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<span style="font-family: "Arial Narrow"; font-size: 16.0pt;">When
my hubby and I first learned about FSA the meetings were required to work
towards adoption. We planned on attending but did not think too much into it.
We felt if we did our part doing all we could Heavenly Father would bless us.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial Narrow"; font-size: 16.0pt;">Over
time we began to get to know the other couples attending the meetings and
become more comfortable attending. We were thrilled when we were asked to be a
part of the committee! This meant we would be able to plan the meetings, the
topics, the direction and help get others excited to attend. We have had
incredible spiritual experiences in many of the meetings. Our hearts have
overflowed with love for those involved with FSA. Being able to plan the
meetings has been so helpful in many areas on the topic of adoption. I have
found that most people are not educated on adoption so it has been valuable to
cover topics such as: dealing with the heartbreak of failed placements,
listening first hand to birth mothers, fathers and grandparents share their
perspective, what to expect along the way, adoption and taxes, how to market
yourselves. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial Narrow"; font-size: 16.0pt;">By
becoming involved with FSA and being active participating members our adoption
experience was much more pleasant. We found new friends who understand what we
were going through. I was not prepared for the many rude & hurtful comments
that I would receive over the years of us working towards adoption. With the
support and friendship of others who attended FSA I found the strength to
overcome the trials of adoption.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We were able to open up to them in ways I did not ever imagine. We have
gained life long friends. We have had the opportunity to be uplifted by them
and also uplift them during the darkest parts of adoption. I never planned on
making new friends through our adoption experience and I am in awe how Heavenly
Father knows exactly whom we need in our lives at an exact moment in time. I
have learned so much about myself and more importantly I have truly come to
know for myself that our Father in Heaven really does know each of us. His plan
is so much better than any thing I could ever dream up on my own. My heart has
come to love the other couples that are in a similar situation in life and with
out my involvement with FSA I would never have met these friends. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial Narrow"; font-size: 16.0pt;">Here
at FSA we try to create an open loving environment, where everyone feels
comfortable and can participate. We want each person to feel that they can make
suggestions on topics to discuss, ask questions about anything from what its
like at the hospital, ideas on birth mother gifts, what to expect at court and
just in general network with the other couples. We want the couples to know
they can invite their friends and help educate them on the topics we discuss as
well. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial Narrow"; font-size: 16.0pt;">I
have watched FSA transform over the years in which I have attended.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>In the beginning I noticed not many
couples came and those that did, did not speak with each other, they would
leave just after the meeting was over.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>The couples did not consistently attend the meetings. Now the couples
come and everyone interacts wanting to chat after each meeting. The couples
actually know each other and when someone new comes everyone is excited to meet
them and hear all about them.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>People ask questions and interact with the speakers.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Couples who have adopted in the past
come and support the new couples.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>We all rejoice over good news and our hearts break together over sad
news. We are truly friends here.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: "Arial Narrow"; font-size: 16.0pt;">I
never ever imagined that I would have an opportunity to be so involved with
adoption. My husband and I have been blessed time and time again through our
involvement with FSA. I encourage all who are considering adoption weather it
be through LDS family services or another organization weather you are
interested in adopting an infant, toddler or older child to come to our
meetings. I can honestly say I have learned something at each meeting and more
importantly I leave filled with the spirit.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
<!--EndFragment-->Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-17283095297628373682013-04-15T15:32:00.001-07:002013-04-15T15:32:45.433-07:00My Curlie'sMy heart belongs to these two. Watching them interact with each other and listening to the laughter and running feet of both of them brings me great joy. Ollie follows Dad and wants to play with him. He is curious, always of what Dad is doing. I love my curly haired boys. <br/><br/><div class="separator"style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPfMLFODymFJcp8qgR968-31mSPH0iIIRT2YThqlewDdq0LAU-nCzcYcf0P7FYYOQiXyM65drOsbafqJowlN8p1NPRKOVPxmPFO1AZdz4mmXqcfDLj7XduGTzU-QG4qudw957Rps_WSWg/s640/blogger-image-25495772.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhPfMLFODymFJcp8qgR968-31mSPH0iIIRT2YThqlewDdq0LAU-nCzcYcf0P7FYYOQiXyM65drOsbafqJowlN8p1NPRKOVPxmPFO1AZdz4mmXqcfDLj7XduGTzU-QG4qudw957Rps_WSWg/s640/blogger-image-25495772.jpg" /></a></div> <br/><br/><div class="separator"style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIRskSxMG1Hx_2oFM5ZTSgzmkSWPHLW6e6FLBOYZh6O6VJE5RGXLuOJSjJK-ktDFGnPYOJk9jYigl3DrIvJbhW54FvBkiOj_EJHVK3iQvVmEX9eNFEK8EHxdAuSnM2L6d9bk4yqjVMQYE/s640/blogger-image--701783513.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiIRskSxMG1Hx_2oFM5ZTSgzmkSWPHLW6e6FLBOYZh6O6VJE5RGXLuOJSjJK-ktDFGnPYOJk9jYigl3DrIvJbhW54FvBkiOj_EJHVK3iQvVmEX9eNFEK8EHxdAuSnM2L6d9bk4yqjVMQYE/s640/blogger-image--701783513.jpg" /></a></div> <br/><br/><div class="separator"style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEga2Gl781kulpcojymwh7goUjMyGuLqUcbOVSqPT7y0Pc5G13lie-to61qfgHSyZFAcdDYQysZrpHJ4CP7al63iS0i1FfAyHTS39-n5pR92S1Ypw_4Xi9u9o1YiNrTTtb1gakZYzvLIBmg/s640/blogger-image-486697314.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEga2Gl781kulpcojymwh7goUjMyGuLqUcbOVSqPT7y0Pc5G13lie-to61qfgHSyZFAcdDYQysZrpHJ4CP7al63iS0i1FfAyHTS39-n5pR92S1Ypw_4Xi9u9o1YiNrTTtb1gakZYzvLIBmg/s640/blogger-image-486697314.jpg" /></a></div> <br/><br/><div class="separator"style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirlQ7TExdXwTDhszgWuidWAx1gAETAj8KAmPUk0ecrINqtj7bVcB5-zts2AO2J2lMbhAlcBhkmnk1mKQl_iAkj3HTGS7J1E7lkx51rEwwt7ehs-E6NG8tjvFo7vTXf_H48HdwxIpirGDE/s640/blogger-image--963952535.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEirlQ7TExdXwTDhszgWuidWAx1gAETAj8KAmPUk0ecrINqtj7bVcB5-zts2AO2J2lMbhAlcBhkmnk1mKQl_iAkj3HTGS7J1E7lkx51rEwwt7ehs-E6NG8tjvFo7vTXf_H48HdwxIpirGDE/s640/blogger-image--963952535.jpg" /></a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-42228139921711802282013-04-10T15:42:00.001-07:002013-04-10T15:42:31.653-07:00Our idea of ParadiseWhen the sunshines high and the air is warm we spend our time at the beach. I am so thankful to live in such a beautiful part of the world. 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Being a new parent can be overwhelming, especially if you receive a call with the good news you have been chosen by a birth mother, your baby is at the hospital waiting for you! I put together a presentation of what I have found to be helpful. I am not a parenting expert, I believe each child has their own personality, one way does not work for all. This is my guide, my opinion, what worked for me.<br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">NEW BABY BASICS<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">INTRODUCTION:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">I just want
to start by saying I have had a very emotional week and talking about adoption
always makes me emotional. So please bear with me as I speak.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">I am
Niccole, my husband Tim is at home with our baby Oliver. We adopted
Oliver 18 months ago at birth. We were at the hospital when he was born and had
the opportunity to be in the hospital for 2 days with our birth mother and
Oliver. Originally, our birth mother had planned on not spending too much time
with Oliver. After giving birth she realized she wanted to love on him. While
at the hospital I let our birth mother know that if she wanted alone time with
Oliver to let us know. We wanted for her to be able to enjoy him while she
could. Watching this take place was so tender and special while also being so
scary. Of course I was worried about her bonding with him and becoming even
more attached. I continually prayed for her and tried my best to remain
faithful in whatever Heavenly Father’s plan was. It was very difficult. It was
so hard because I was extremely excited and wanted to hold Oliver and kiss him
over and over and over again but at the same time my heart was breaking for our
birth mother. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">I am not an expert when it comes to
babies or parenting. I will share what I have found helpful and useful with my
child. Each child is different, what worked for one may not work for another.
Do what you feel is best for your child.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">
</span>First and foremost, I believe that through my relationship with our
Heavenly Father and having the spirit with us was by far the most helpful and
comforting in bringing home our new baby. By having the spirit with us we were
in turn able to really listen to our babies promptings and know what he needed.
When you feel like you don’t know what to do or what is wrong with your baby,
turn to Heavenly Father in prayer. Do not be afraid to ask your friends and
family for help or advice. Being a new parent can be overwhelming, especially
when you are sleep deprived. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Our birth
mothers are so precious and special. Giving each of us the opportunity to be
parents. The most incredible gift ever. I wanted our birth mother to feel as
comfortable and loved as possible at the hospital. We wanted to bring her gifts
that she could use while at the hospital if she chose to.</span><br />
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">HOSPITAL
GIFT IDEA FOR BIRTH MOM:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">I did
research and found that cabbage leaves help dry up the milk supply. This is a
helpful tip for all our birth mothers. They have gone through so much and I can
only imagine how emotional it is when the milk comes in and they are with out
child.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Prior to
your birth mother going into labor discuss the hospital plan. Remember this
will most likely be the only time the birth mom will get to spend with the baby
she just gave birth to. Emotions are high for everyone involved. I found it was
extremely comforting for us and our birth family to be comforted through the
power of prayer. We had asked our friends and family to continually keep our
birth mother in their daily prayers. Our birth mothers family who is not active
in the church shared with us that the day our birth mother left the hospital
with out the baby, they all felt the power of all the prayers being offered on
their behalf. Our friends then fasted the next day for our birth family.
Heavenly Fathers presence is felt through out the journey of adoption.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">If
possible, schedule a tour of the hospital for expectant parents. Our hospital
was accommodating when I called and notified them we would be adopting a baby
who was going to be born at their hospital. They had us join a tour with all
the Pregnant Ladies.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>For me it was
calming to have some sort of idea how the hospital operates in Labor and
Delivery and Recovery. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Discuss
with your birth mother if you will be able to see the baby and if you will need
a wristband. Hospitals are very strict in this area of the hospital. Once again
remember this is the time the birth mother will get to spend with the child she
just birthed. Be respectful of her wishes. Be prepared mentally knowing that
the plan can and may change at the hospital. This is an extremely emotional
time for the birth mother/father and their families. Be patient and calm. Most
of all be yourself! <o:p></o:p></span><br />
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all the paperwork<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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installed in the car prior to arriving at the hospital<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">I brought
home his wristband, nametags, footprints, a hospital blanket and a hospital tee
as keepsakes for Ollie.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Some
hospitals will give you formula in bottles and diapers. But it is best to be
prepared with all your own items, especially if you are traveling from a far
place. I used the Costco brand formula from the day we brought Ollie home from
the hospital. We had no problems with it. Babies are gassy, as your doctor will
tell you. There is a stomach rub you can do on the baby and leg movements you
can do to help with the gas. My Doctor said, he hears from moms whom
breast-feed that their baby is gassy and he hears from moms that formula feed
that their baby is gassy. It is normal! Do not feel guilty that you are formula
feeding. Consult with your doctor about the formula you will be using. If
necessary vitamins are needed he will let you know. With our formula we needed
to add some drops to it. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">If you have
a pet it’s a good idea if possible to bring a blanket to the hospital and put
it on the baby, then bring it home before you bring the baby home and let your
pet sleep on it. This way they are familiar with the smell of the new baby.
When you do bring the baby home bring the baby in the house in the car seat,
set the car seat on the floor and let your pets come smell and check out the
baby. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">CAR SEAT
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Check out
</span><span style="font-family: Verdana; font-size: 14.0pt;"><a href="http://www.nhtsa.gov/"><span style="font-family: Arial;">www.nhtsa.gov</span></a></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"> for child safety seat laws.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">There are
2 types of harnesses found on car seats:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">5 point:
A harness that comes over each shoulder, across both hips, and has one strap
between the legs. All 5 parts of the harness come together at a common buckle.
5-point harnesses are considered to be the most protective type of harness.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">3 point:
A harness that comes over each shoulder with the shoulder straps coming
together at the buckle on a crotch strap or in the shell of the car seat. These
harnesses are found only in rear-facing car seats and are primarily found on
older models.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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use in the rear-facing position, thread the harness straps need through the
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</span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Place
your child in the car seat with the child's back flat against the car seat.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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the harness straps over the child’s shoulders. Harness straps should lie flat,
not twisted.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Buckle
the harness, and the chest clip. Tighten the harness until snug. The harness is
snug enough when you cannot pinch any extra material on the child’s shoulders.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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</span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Bulky
clothing or blankets can prevent a snug harness fit. Always buckle the baby in
the seat first, and then place coats or blankets over the harness.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Place the
chest clip at your child’s armpit level. This holds the harness straps in place
on the child’s chest and shoulders.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"><b>Recline
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Babies
need support to keep their airway open. As your child grows the angle may be
adjusted, so be sure to read the manufacturer’s instructions. Most car seats
have built in angle indicators or adjustors to assist you.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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your baby needs support, fill the empty spaces with small, rolled blankets on
each side of the baby’s shoulders and head.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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there is a gap between the buckle and your child’s groin (common for young
infants), try placing a rolled washcloth or diaper in the space for a more
secure fit.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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padding must not be put under or behind the baby unless it is recommended for
use by the manufacturer.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Safety in
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">occarseatsafety.com<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">949-726-2405<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Be sure to
consult with your Pediatrician before changing the car seat from backward
facing to forward facing. I am a huge advocate on not turning the car seat
forward facing too soon! An infant’s neck is not strong enough to survive a car
crash when facing forward. It is better to have a broken leg than a snapped
neck.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">At this
time you should already have a pediatrician lined up. It is best to be prepared
since you could literally get a call at any given moment that you have been
chosen by a birth family! Talk to your OB/GYN and friends who live in your area
about who their Pediatrician is and what they like / dislike. When we had been
chosen I called the Pediatrician whom we wanted to use and let them know our
situation. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">At this
time it is also a good idea to check with your insurance to ensure that your
chosen Doctor is covered. Once the baby is born call the Doctor to schedule
your first appointment. LDS Family Services will tell you how many days after
the baby is born that you have until you need to see the Doctor. I believe its
3- 5 days????<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"><a href="http://strollertraffic.com/ee-assets/my-uploads/pdfs/strollertraffic-checklist.pdf">http://strollertraffic.com/ee-assets/my-uploads/pdfs/strollertraffic-checklist.pdf</a><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">BASICS:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<!--[if !supportLists]--><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";"> </span></span><!--[endif]--><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Stroller<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">HEALTH:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">10. First aid kit<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">11. Nail clippers<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">12. Nasal aspirator<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">LAYETTE and BEDDING:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">11. Sheets – a lot of them!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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many apps available for keeping track of feeding your baby. I found this very
helpful to track the time and amount drank during each feeding. I used the
similac app. On babble.com there is list of 50 apps for new moms </span><span style="font-size: 14.0pt;"><a href="http://www.babble.com/mom/mom-products/top-50-iphone-apps-for-moms-3/50-best-iphone-apps-for-moms-baby-connect/"><span style="font-family: Arial;">http://www.babble.com/mom/mom-products/top-50-iphone-apps-for-moms-3/50-best-iphone-apps-for-moms-baby-connect/</span></a></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Also check
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">There is
only one baby prep book I read before Ollie was born Twelve Hours of Sleep by
Twelve Weeks Old by Suzy Giordano with Lisa Abidin . In this book it explains
feeding your baby a certain number of ounces based on their weight. I did not
follow the book exactly I went with what my instinct told me.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>This worked for us. Our baby ate very
well and in turn also slept very well.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">When
bottle-feeding it’s the perfect opportunity to bond with your baby. You never
want to prop the bottle up in their mouth. Always hold the bottle for your
baby. You do not want the baby to choke.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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bottles. There are a large variety of bottles and nipples. You may need to try
a couple different bottles and nipples until you find a combination that works
best for your baby. Not all nipples have the same shape and hole size.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">I actually
never even thought of or questioned how I would bond with Ollie. It was not
until just this month that my sister inquired about the time frame it took for
Ollie and I to bond. Before I ever met Ollie I already had a love for him. In
our adoption situation we had the wonderful opportunity to have our birth
mother stay in our home on many occasions. I believe that through the
relationship I formed with her and the deep love I have for her, made it all
that much easier for me to feel connected to Ollie before he was born. The
moment I walked into the delivery room and saw our tiny little Ollie on the
table my heart melted. I loved him so much already. Each day I spent caring for
him and watching him take the world in, I fell more in love. I still feel the same
way today, each day I love him more than I could have ever imagined.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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may not be the case for everyone who adopts. For my husband the attachment was
not immediate since he was not the person meeting all of Ollie’s needs day in
and day out. Over time he became more attached to Ollie.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #2f2f2f; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Bonding
and attachment often are used interchangeably, but they are different. Bonding,
which occurs when you meet your new child's needs consistently and in a timely
manner, can begin immediately. Attachment, which is the relationship that grows
between you and your child, occurs over time and as a result of many factors,
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<span style="color: #2f2f2f; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Katie
Prigel Sharp She is the co-owner of </span><span style="color: #2f2f2f; font-family: Times-Roman; font-size: 14.0pt;"><a href="http://www.heartofthematterseminars.com/"><span style="color: #8b0c4c; font-family: Arial; text-decoration: none; text-underline: none;">Heart of the Matter
Seminars</span></a></span><span style="color: #2f2f2f; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">, an educational company with the mission to "prepare, not
scare" adoptive families with realistic and honest adoption education. She
is also the author of <i>Adoptive Parenting From the Ground Up</i></span><span style="color: #2f2f2f; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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Sharp emphasizes that humans are biologically programmed to behave in ways to
promote attachment. Prigel Sharp feels that your newly adopted child will
benefit greatly if you are very conscious of the attachment process and act in
ways to promote attachment. It is important to learn about the bonding cycle
and attachment process so that you can engage in more intense repetitions of
the behaviors that promote and build attachment.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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respond, respond! Remember, <b>you cannot spoil a child simply by meeting her
needs</b></span><span style="color: #2f2f2f; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #2f2f2f; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">5.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Keep life with
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<span style="color: #2f2f2f; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Of course, keep in mind that is a simple, short list. Nothing
about attachment is simple or short, so do your research. Knowledge is power.
As a parent, you want what is best for your child. One of the more important
things you can do to help your child grow up feeling strong and secure is work
consciously and actively toward healthy mutual attachment.</span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">-Go out
by yourself and buy something for your baby. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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doing things together with your child as he/she grows up.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">-Hold
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Swaddle
your baby. The best blankets for swaddling are Aden and Anais. <a href="http://www.adenandanais.com/">www.adenandanais.com</a><o:p></o:p></span></div>
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is key! Start a routine and stick to it. Do the same thing each night when you
put your baby to sleep for the night at the same time each night. Here is what
we do at the same time each night:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Turn on the
fan in the bathroom, turn on the fan on the dresser, turn on the sleep sheep
that is attached to the bottom of the crib, turn on monitor, change clothes
into PJ’s, put all diapers on (he wears three at night!), brush teeth, turn off
all lights, then hold Ollie and feed him his bottle while he holds his blanket.
We have done this routine minus the tooth brushing since he was 4 weeks old. He
slept through the night at 4 weeks old, a minimum of 14 hours straight each
night. He still sleeps 11.5 – 12 hours each night. I believe you should never
wake a sleeping baby. We have gone by this in our home and as you<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">When your
baby is crying and you are unsure of the reason try the basics: is she hungry?
Is the diaper wet? Are they too hot or too cold? Do they want to be rocked? Is
there a random hair tickling them? Do they have gas? Try leg exercises or
rubbing the tummy.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;"> </span>Many people use
the 5 S’s by Dr.Karp:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">According
to Dr. Karp, to sooth a crying infant, recreating the womb environment helps
the baby feel more secure and calm. Dr. Karp recommends:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"><b>Swaddling</b></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">: Tight swaddling provides the
continuous touching and support your baby is used to experiencing within the
womb.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"><b>Side/stomach position</b></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">: The infant is placed on their left
side to assist in digestion, or on their stomach to provide reassuring support.
“But never use the stomach position for putting your baby to sleep,” cautions
Karp. Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) is linked to stomach-down sleep
positions. When a baby is in a stomach down position do not leave them even for
a moment.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"><b>Shushing sounds</b></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">: These imitate the continual
whooshing sound made by the blood flowing through arteries near the womb.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"><b>Swinging</b></span><span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">: Newborns are used to the swinging
motions within their mother’s womb, so entering the gravity driven world of the
outside is like a sailor adapting to land after nine months at sea. “It’s
disorienting and unnatural,” says Karp. Rocking, car rides, and other swinging
movements all can help.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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within the nervous system,” notes Karp, “and triggers the calming reflex and
releases natural chemicals within the brain.” <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Something
that was helpful to us in those first couple weeks was, we had a couple friends
come over around 8pm and stay till midnight. At this time we were able to sleep
and they tended to Ollie. This is something I will never forget and it meant so
much to me. And it was super helpful. Being a tired new mom is exhausting! I
needed some sleep!!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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I would recommend is have your meals prepared and frozen if you do not have
family and friends bringing meals to your home. Being new parents is
exhausting! And you will want to spend as much time as possible loving on and
holding your sweet new babe. We had meals brought to us for 2 weeks, which was
awesome! The last thing on my mind was eating! Also have snacks in the kitchen
so you can grab something quickly to nibble on. I never wanted to put Ollie
down, so most days I would not even think to eat. But we all need food to keep
us going. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Have lots
of laundry soap on hand. The one thing I was least prepared for was the massive
amounts of never ending laundry!! Which still exist today in our home. I had no
idea how much clothing, blankets, burp clothes, sheets, liners etc that a baby uses
each day. I was constantly doing laundry! And still am today. I always buy two
large containers of laundry soap when I go to Target. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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bottles is also never ending. Be prepared! Read the instructions on all your
different types of bottles before the baby is born. Wash them as recommend
sooner than later. When you arrive home with your baby you want everything
ready to go! I found a couple of drying racks were needed, one is not enough!
Have plenty of bottles on hand, I would say in this case more is better. You
might need to try out different bottles and nipples with your newborn until you
find one that they like the best. In our home we use Tommee Tippie. <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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SURVIVAL GUIDE FROM DR.KARP:<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 13.5pt;">The Top Ten Tips for Parents of New Babies<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">1. Trust Yourself: You Are the Latest in the
Unbroken Chain of the World’s Top Parents Most new parents alternate between
feeling like a major</span><span style="color: black; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 14.0pt;">‐</span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">league pro and an inept roo kie.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">But, always remember: You are part of an
unbroken chain of successful parents that stretches all the way back to the
beginning of time! Trust your feelings and relax, all your baby needs right now
is milk and your nourishing love.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">2. Lower Your Expectations<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Many pregnant couples today have never even
touched a newborn, yet they expect to automatically know what to do the moment
their baby is born. Another little</span><span style="color: black; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 14.0pt;">‐</span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">told truth about becoming a parent is that many
new moms and dads don’t feel smitten right away. Falling in love might take a
little time.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Also, your hormonal rollercoaster often leads to
forgetfulness. And, ditziness is made ten times worse by exhaustion. Clear
thinking is tough in the face of sleep deprivation. So be patient and kind to
yourself.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">3. Accept All the Help You Can Get<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Never in history were a mother and a father
expected to care for their baby all by themselves. Get help and don’t feel
guilty about asking </span><span style="color: black; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 14.0pt;">‐</span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"> or paying </span><span style="color: black; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 14.0pt;">‐</span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;"> for it. Lean on your support network to help take care of
you—you’ll pay it back later.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">4. Get Your Priorities Straight: Should You Take
a Break or Do the Dishes?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Addressing baby announcements and retuning phone
calls is NOT your top job. Don’t try to do too much and remember to rest.
Fatigue can make you depressed, irritable, and distort your view of the world
like a fun</span><span style="color: black; font-family: Helvetica; font-size: 14.0pt;">‐</span><span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">house mirror. So please get some rest!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">5. Be Flexible: It’s Better to Bend Than to Snap<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">The universal bumper sticker of parenthood says,
“Be flexible...or die!”It’s fun to choose which parenting options make sense to
you, but, it’s important to be flexible and recognize when things are not going
as planned.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">6. Know Thyself: How Do Your Baby’s Cries Make
You Feel?<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Your baby’s screams may trigger a flood of
upsetting feelings. You may suddenly remember voices of anger, criticism, and
ridicule from long ago. Fatigue and stress can fool your mind making innocent
cries feel like stinging attacks. This is normal. Share your feelings with
someone who cares about you. Discuss your past pains, will help you see how
unrelated your baby’s cries are to those old experiences.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">7. Don’t Rock the Cradle Too Hard: Babies,
Frustration, and Child Abuse<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">The sound of a baby’s cry sets off a “red alert”
inside our brains. This crying can sometimes push even a loving parent over the
edge into the dark abyss of child abuse when coupled with fatigue, depression,
financial stress, hormonal chaos, family conflict, and a history of being
abused. When you’re near your breaking point; get some help. Talk to a friend,
relative, or crisis hotline.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">8. Keep Your Sense of Humor Handy<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">You don’t want to make mistakes, but you will.
Remember, perfection is found only in the dictionary. So, forget dignity,
forget organization, be gentle with yourself and laugh, laugh, laugh. Laughter
raises your spirits, lowers your stress and is exactly what this doctor orders.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">9. Take Care of Your Spouse (S/he Just Might
Come in Handy Someday)<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Taking care of a new baby is so demanding it’s
easy for a parent to start feeling like s/he’s giving a 110% effort (usually
true) and their partner is giving only 75% (usually false). Caring for your
baby is only half your job; the other half is giving each other some TLC. Dads
must support and adore their wives; moms must nurture and caress their
husbands. Cut each other some extra slack and avoid harsh criticisms.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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shocking as it sounds, approximately forty percent of new moms experience unhappy
feelings during the weeks after giving birth. Becoming tearful, worried, or exhausted yet unable to sleep may all signal postpartum depression? Get help!<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">Our
children grow up all too fast. Before we know it they are eating solids, walking,
talking, using the potty, then its off to school, many activities and sports,
dating, spending more time with friends than us. Before we even realize they
are in high school! Cherish each moment. Try to remember the little things each
day. Far too soon those moments will have passed and we will each be craving
for our child to sit in our lap just one more time. Find joy in each day spent
with your children. When you find yourself becoming frustrated or fed up, take
a brief moment to pause and gain control of yourself. Think before you react.
Remember they are only young once, this is the only time you have. So make it
enjoyable for them. The laundry will pile up, the dishes will still be there,
your friends can chat latter, the floor can be vacuumed later but this moment
now will last only for a brief second. Cherish it! <o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: #19131a; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">"i
know it is hard for you young mothers to believe that almost before you can
turn around the children will be gone and you will be alone with your husband.
you had better be sure you are developing the kind of love and friendship that
will be delightful and enduring. let the children learn from your attitude that
he is important. encourage him. be kind. it is a rough world, and he, like
everyone else, is fighting to survive. be cheerful. don't be a whiner."
[marjorie pay hinckley] ♥<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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it comes to parenting "whenever possible say yes, they are only kids
once!" -Marjorie Hinckley<o:p></o:p></span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: Arial; font-size: 14.0pt;">I
have a book “Mom’s One Line A Day” it is perfect for keeping a memory of the
tender sweet moments of your child. It is so easy to get caught up the day to
day and forget the little joys of being a parent. Each day I try to make an
effort to be the best mother I can be to Oliver.<o:p></o:p></span></div>
<!--EndFragment-->Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-48671711398571782162013-04-09T22:21:00.001-07:002013-04-09T22:21:58.373-07:00Swim Float SwimOllie got accepted into the ISR swim program here locally. We had him on the wait list not expecting to start until sometime in May. The phone call a couple weeks ago that there was one open spot if we wanted it! The start date was the following week on April 1. We jumped on the opportunity. The program takes anywhere from 6-8 weeks. Being that we are around water very often we felt strongly about this program. <br />
Our plan was to do swim float swim. I was amazed that within 4 days Ollie was already swimming to the edge of the pool. He cried while in the water. He does not enjoy getting his head wet. He can float on his back which is awesome! As for now he does not like to swim. We have decided with the coach that for now he will teach him to float, <br/><br/><div class="separator"style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWaBbpntgZvPM7-uWbceW370wNizGWDfynmI5wPnHx51zt80MBaRi5CCofZ9ME3Zb5B22v-BjJ-L6ZoW5eubaW6zaJ_IE4YemxBqswUg1-QO5TyJ4qWGhYWWV5TkZRBh1kvmp5XrCiC10/s640/blogger-image-175392569.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiWaBbpntgZvPM7-uWbceW370wNizGWDfynmI5wPnHx51zt80MBaRi5CCofZ9ME3Zb5B22v-BjJ-L6ZoW5eubaW6zaJ_IE4YemxBqswUg1-QO5TyJ4qWGhYWWV5TkZRBh1kvmp5XrCiC10/s640/blogger-image-175392569.jpg" /></a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-87911259494380500262013-04-09T14:07:00.001-07:002013-04-09T14:41:25.926-07:00Hoping to once again grow our familyWe have had the wonderful blessing of an incredible adoption experience with our birth family. Not a day has passed since our birth mother first contacted us via email that I do not think of her. Her courage and love have touched my soul. With out her I would not be who I am today. I have never loved someone the way I love her, there is no way I can ever repay her for the greatest gift she gave me. My sweet Ollie. I often find myself in lala land recounting the precious moments of our relationship prior to Ollie's birth and I begin to cry over and over again. I wish so badly that I could have captured the spirit that filled our home, hearts and lives during those moments and bottled it up for times when I need it. I have never felt so much love in my life. I believe it was through the hundreds of prayers that were continually said to our Heavenly Father on behalf of my husband and I as well as our birth mother. Each day I could feel the angels of heaven touching our life. It was perfect.<br />
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We knew we wanted more children to be a part of our family it was just a matter of time before we took the plunge back into adoption. Here we are ready once again to work towards bringing another child into our home & hearts. Honestly, it has been hard to accept and realize that our first adoption was a complete dream as is our child and that is VERY VERY rare in adoption. I have cried many a times. I want to love our future birth mothers as we love our current birth mother. It breaks my heart to even begin to think about not having a relationship with our future birth mothers. I continually pray for another miracle. I sure hope our birth mothers will want to get to know as much as we want to get to know them & bring them into our family.<br />
I have much respect for birth mothers everywhere. They are strong, courageous and loving. I have a family because of our birth mother and my mom's birth mother. <br />
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Unknownnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-19211929108702298372013-04-09T13:49:00.001-07:002013-04-09T13:49:56.211-07:00Speaking : The benefits of Families Supporting AdoptionIt is very rare that I find myself nervous before a public speaking engagement. Today was that day. Unsure of why I felt so nervous. My presentation went great! <br />
I spoke to a group of women from The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints regarding adoption, more specifically the benefits in my own life of being involved with the organization Families Supporting Adoption. I left feeling inspired for my own personal journey in adoption and on upcoming projects I am hopeful to do for Families Supporting Adoption. <br />
I am still in awe of my involvement with adoption. I once again feel so fortunate to be a part of this organization.<br />
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At South Coast Plaza you can photograph with your own camera. I do this each year with the Bunny & Ollie. This year baby Hazel joined us. Ollie could not get enough of the Bunny. After our photography session he continued to walk back over to the Bunny playing footsie with him again and again. I believe he felt he knew the Bunny from our prior encounters this season.<br />
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As you can tell Ollie enjoyed playing with the herbs & veggies. Our attempt at a photo of the cousins together.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-47158200778757805322013-03-31T14:03:00.001-07:002013-03-31T14:03:55.335-07:00Our MiracleThe happiest day of our life. Our perfect angel was born on September 7 2011 in Los Angeles. We were privileged to be at the hospital while he was born. We could hardly contain our excitement! Jackie is incredible. The compassion she has for us and Ollie has been a great blessing to us. We each spent time holding and feeding tiny Ollie in the hospital room. Jackie's love for Ollie was immediate, as was ours. She is strong and brave. We can never adequately thank her for the beautiful gift she has given us. Not a day passes that I do not think of her. We are the luckiest adoptive couple ever! 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We are excited and anxious for the wonderful adventure we have been through and continue go through. Our little Thor has been such a sweet blessings for us both and I have found a new soft spot in my heart for animals, but it is time to continue on in growing our little family. We can hardly wait for the day we can bring our baby home! Adoption has changed so much since the year my mother was adopted, it is very difficult to get placed with a child. Our agency has informed of us of there being a lack of children to be placed in homes at this time. Sadly, for us we can not afford to work with other agencies that are out there & can place us with a child. We have worked so hard saving our money knowing this is what the future had for us, now we just hope we can find a baby. We ask that our blog readers help us spread the word about us to all their friends & family. You can view our <a href="http://www.facebook.com/home.php?sk=group_115001391899729&ap=1">facebook</a> page & group... Help Timmy and Niccole get a baby or you can find us on <a href="https://www.itsaboutlove.org">itsaboutlove.org</a>. Thank you.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-75154543235809623812010-10-31T15:01:00.001-07:002010-10-31T15:03:28.208-07:00Happy Halloween<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijkiMCsgg5awNppaQptkskKx8nnR74G7sFD2mZGMDZEJxa520-rYnj0qgWOkSa2PqSL1tB09h2vNRhxdzoo7HgMvC0YZsjUoAScYFc9ujfGYzb92vjeZBcPlAii_svgKPHwkCJw0YbY4M/s1600/halloween4.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEijkiMCsgg5awNppaQptkskKx8nnR74G7sFD2mZGMDZEJxa520-rYnj0qgWOkSa2PqSL1tB09h2vNRhxdzoo7HgMvC0YZsjUoAScYFc9ujfGYzb92vjeZBcPlAii_svgKPHwkCJw0YbY4M/s320/halloween4.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5534333977362797778" /></a>Thor never shy's away from the camera. He is a natural. Hope you enjoyed your festive filled weekend! We have been partying all weekend long with friends. Happy Halloween!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-12009122631750669222010-10-22T09:58:00.000-07:002010-10-22T10:07:48.406-07:00Come say HELLO...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtYx3VUUx6AxTjuEto-qXBX6ZECo2McX-9QO9CC3mdnG2qEDEkcO4t1G7_HiWrydW33i5eJn1oW1QzZBI4FSAGbXz_GAIf0NrIO_D_5rlhO3_uvtHICUf5Mw6Ndj-WuxLibO0JmUFF2zg/s1600/NIK_5570.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhtYx3VUUx6AxTjuEto-qXBX6ZECo2McX-9QO9CC3mdnG2qEDEkcO4t1G7_HiWrydW33i5eJn1oW1QzZBI4FSAGbXz_GAIf0NrIO_D_5rlhO3_uvtHICUf5Mw6Ndj-WuxLibO0JmUFF2zg/s320/NIK_5570.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5530917938594401938" /></a><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;">{you will see a lot of us over <a href="http://randombitsoflittle.blogspot.com/">here</a>}</span></div><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: x-small;"><br /></span></div>Wonder why there have been a lack of posts? Well besides all the changes taking place in our life & our crazy work schedules... I have been blogging <a href="http://randombitsoflittle.blogspot.com/">here</a>. Instead of sitting around wondering when things will take place in our lives & waiting & waiting & waiting I decided I needed an outlet to keep my mind occupied. Stop by for a visit <a href="http://randombitsoflittle.blogspot.com/">{randombitsoflittle.blogspot.com}</a>!<div><br /></div><div><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-30041894355772183012010-09-26T08:23:00.001-07:002010-09-26T08:27:10.708-07:00Lazy Sunday<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicOP6fIvgNr9wdSjYHxxRQryu4iXQ4LAdLJ5rduIsry1e3Hu5yVMD6p0SJa_Sk4FVJJR-b-VARd51VuflOENfJBQBEMkj3qCixFg-aqEQ9SHE3K5mSP3vjvUYMLZ8LEur37unv8z75U_w/s1600/IMG_0049.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 239px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEicOP6fIvgNr9wdSjYHxxRQryu4iXQ4LAdLJ5rduIsry1e3Hu5yVMD6p0SJa_Sk4FVJJR-b-VARd51VuflOENfJBQBEMkj3qCixFg-aqEQ9SHE3K5mSP3vjvUYMLZ8LEur37unv8z75U_w/s320/IMG_0049.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5521243720168533650" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3DS2eeJMn0TH-WiN7FVF2mO0Q5dSvy7e7_M5jdmTzrGHp1uobDdevRgeAjjVhEnfybRGA6OW52TkgN63NJh9wJVhkt_EHsVfjUMlsB3sdXwbX2CS__CyTJHuKXQgD5duWxes-uLd6o_A/s1600/IMG_0053.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 239px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh3DS2eeJMn0TH-WiN7FVF2mO0Q5dSvy7e7_M5jdmTzrGHp1uobDdevRgeAjjVhEnfybRGA6OW52TkgN63NJh9wJVhkt_EHsVfjUMlsB3sdXwbX2CS__CyTJHuKXQgD5duWxes-uLd6o_A/s320/IMG_0053.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5521243716897979378" /></a>On Sunday afternoons you will find us relaxing under the sun. Thor loves laying in the sun! Sunday is the only day out of the week when try very hard to relax.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-47074377529837338612010-09-22T17:59:00.000-07:002010-09-22T18:10:31.180-07:00Guy time in SB<div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div>We decided to take a quick weekend trip up to Santa Barbara before Jeremy gets married,although we didn't score any waves, we had an awesome time just hanging out and chilling with people we don't see very often.<div><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGA7z3i1C5iDKbYr-hsdF-vkcXt27kKMzUhLFaAyidqdWM22EYPJWF_RBfSHlVr4Yjn9wb6UIjqPAiaveiDq0PX8YFGeGtb7GtpeHPXWkzo89ghqzl0aXZfk2nqy_GgVqZ1XIeob_532k/s1600/photo1.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 239px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjGA7z3i1C5iDKbYr-hsdF-vkcXt27kKMzUhLFaAyidqdWM22EYPJWF_RBfSHlVr4Yjn9wb6UIjqPAiaveiDq0PX8YFGeGtb7GtpeHPXWkzo89ghqzl0aXZfk2nqy_GgVqZ1XIeob_532k/s320/photo1.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5519909836301337362" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-x74hQ7CrZ1OCEjaUfPxIQxOEoKrj6VjywXtFc_kM_0hHibrWATi2iaCPhMmWB6PXY4gwxWhIonEdY2FdJZZGpiQ3-oQDDePnHgxQz595nzDJxlX9srBtgeJlr2I5J0yyl20xaa4zJF0/s1600/photo.JPG"><img style="display:block; 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margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhAn50pCKOUP9b6N64FTdr4hKJZ-XRvSabba-9vr5hi8uPlSyYVHe4sxG7-GVCiGZ2CvMkVBfJmRXnx4-ElglbQrJFs3mUthgaaJBCWsOIkx3tdnJtDW3F2cjFEaRt2PNqI27UZO0Cl0HA/s320/NIK_5300.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5519909829116167026" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigP6SIjqq_Kj2lVTKUzrqhJAQps6H7axTJ07uWMxeeBPyBQ8TU4PZ2pLiP_rNJrt3TzPOU7yWhs51IUviZLieBukYSjxK_x4pOGeueVmAzgm2_3k-z1i_NaVtIf1qIJccwB1IFw0E7pGE/s1600/NIK_5243.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEigP6SIjqq_Kj2lVTKUzrqhJAQps6H7axTJ07uWMxeeBPyBQ8TU4PZ2pLiP_rNJrt3TzPOU7yWhs51IUviZLieBukYSjxK_x4pOGeueVmAzgm2_3k-z1i_NaVtIf1qIJccwB1IFw0E7pGE/s320/NIK_5243.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5519909824677669634" /></a><br /><br /></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-87941969534705086532010-08-22T16:04:00.000-07:002010-08-22T16:05:37.330-07:00Girl time<br /><br /><center><a href='http://picasaweb.google.com/100127756735953591355/LovingLifeTogether?authkey=Gv1sRgCP2n8JKit67PLA#5508374301087801506'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi9L-AFtfVxBUJyU7oKX7v-ddYFpUM_EHVj5m7e0gNdNhePdVGHNZNleCw3bCtOT1NmOzj0hTf4XPzM_cWuBr2SCv5BEyFsqlBIhcg2lvQNv8XO5s2A01cPkm6mIf2EGYHQ2I-0xzlaQVg/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='281' height='209' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />- Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-52406676728021154872010-07-02T23:46:00.000-07:002010-07-02T23:54:35.483-07:00flashback...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnlhof1UIUGoEhhlk8daL_3HTxSV0n34l6JqzxMIRExK_DCHsokPb7RfCRpuXnO0cSt5qiY-yZkyGkyJtXVRRdHfw7Yz_z9rqNCnvqEhzkt2O1PUannJTEtUfM_sHdoD2EXGs6FQRNqq0/s1600/IMG_3710.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgnlhof1UIUGoEhhlk8daL_3HTxSV0n34l6JqzxMIRExK_DCHsokPb7RfCRpuXnO0cSt5qiY-yZkyGkyJtXVRRdHfw7Yz_z9rqNCnvqEhzkt2O1PUannJTEtUfM_sHdoD2EXGs6FQRNqq0/s320/IMG_3710.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489569571314909202" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizYqBr3DquvVhHXgsGXxNX3Et_ZAPRZDVHkwGpCH71YxKnMzNVnTL9Uf77UPTkHRg5quXkciqSzyfL-RfMrRGpTXjxWEINsXlUNVwqfq5MMHnNNrklPCWVlJgvzXJ1nUphjpp9MYFxcpc/s1600/IMG_3705.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEizYqBr3DquvVhHXgsGXxNX3Et_ZAPRZDVHkwGpCH71YxKnMzNVnTL9Uf77UPTkHRg5quXkciqSzyfL-RfMrRGpTXjxWEINsXlUNVwqfq5MMHnNNrklPCWVlJgvzXJ1nUphjpp9MYFxcpc/s320/IMG_3705.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489569563882443906" /></a><br />Saw Eclipse tonight my thoughts drifted back to the night we got engaged. The weather that evening was strange, to this day I have never seen the clouds like they were the night timmy got down on his knee to ask me to spent the rest of time with him. The reflection off the deep dark ocean was intense. The wind was blowing and I of course was chilly so Timmy sat in the back of the pick up truck eating alone watching the ocean while I sat inside the truck to warm up. It was June and it probably was not that cold but to me it was cold!Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-15101679134053088602010-07-01T21:38:00.000-07:002010-07-01T21:44:41.262-07:00family time<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-V_M7EYnD0dXDb3nGJxkeVj7GXA-p6mWy3mG2NbGaPfKEQaS0jbHuRm191iRSzjSJAZMha30ajpAFHULmL3mKeQhaAMbX9H04p9DEJ8JHq64hJAEPxtzFOdMcl2iUb1EMUp00jKAa1mQ/s1600/NIK_4459.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 213px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh-V_M7EYnD0dXDb3nGJxkeVj7GXA-p6mWy3mG2NbGaPfKEQaS0jbHuRm191iRSzjSJAZMha30ajpAFHULmL3mKeQhaAMbX9H04p9DEJ8JHq64hJAEPxtzFOdMcl2iUb1EMUp00jKAa1mQ/s320/NIK_4459.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489165149386040818" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjs51ZeLSOBNkshv9l2x6mmuzQQydb5AETY_JosrZPgNrB_wZrsd8kbAT72Yffy5DFbNTnmkCAaHnUn_NLqzFW6L7-Ydfe3M9bR35Y9vAhnbbMFmFvc-P8XTSr7vhCZaVGmiULFJq0xp8/s1600/mail.jpeg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 226px; height: 150px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjjs51ZeLSOBNkshv9l2x6mmuzQQydb5AETY_JosrZPgNrB_wZrsd8kbAT72Yffy5DFbNTnmkCAaHnUn_NLqzFW6L7-Ydfe3M9bR35Y9vAhnbbMFmFvc-P8XTSr7vhCZaVGmiULFJq0xp8/s320/mail.jpeg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5489165139955084946" /></a><br />The festivities for my Mom's birthday have began. We had the fam over for dinner and dessert. The night went way too fast! The dogs love the park so we took them for a little walk. Many more fun birthday activities to come...Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-11533383978224779762010-06-27T16:00:00.000-07:002010-06-27T16:01:02.304-07:00Lazy dayIs he not the cutest dog ever? Thor baby we love you.<br /><br /><br /><center><a href='http://picasaweb.google.com/100127756735953591355/LovingLifeTogether?authkey=Gv1sRgCP2n8JKit67PLA#5487592341509988994'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj_f9BRKVT2S8Mp0gvppYRalmR8IrRnTSYOSdlhoopCN8JRfbDPoYGSSHzHmjAab1MSfaYB2nyTlhbRAOt3BtHrNXiUUdozXNUXTYwWKhS-fXwC4TQPzG2Gjv3nJe4iIDePaLMy976eBLM/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='210' height='281' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />- Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-44476523870208878882010-06-27T12:25:00.001-07:002010-06-27T12:28:18.927-07:00got it!<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjK0r1CZWhGosVRtBIZwxiS0yDSdZNGfS_l-u9yWPokToDJlhuU73z9FMeCXd5MQwG6aMVGuiEY2QSdZs914bOhr8CINuHUd0AM12jsskx8vOK7dSb5dUdA6RlekRlPVHxD4MP85Xq-v2U/s1600/28467_1331279358078_1113833807_30801326_7909201_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjK0r1CZWhGosVRtBIZwxiS0yDSdZNGfS_l-u9yWPokToDJlhuU73z9FMeCXd5MQwG6aMVGuiEY2QSdZs914bOhr8CINuHUd0AM12jsskx8vOK7dSb5dUdA6RlekRlPVHxD4MP85Xq-v2U/s320/28467_1331279358078_1113833807_30801326_7909201_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5487536949520394866" /></a>Can not believe how amazing technology is! It is hard believe that I did not have a cell phone until the middle of College... now days 2 year olds know how to work iphones! It is really amazing to be able to make a phone call from my cell phone and see the person who I am talking to. History in the making... which is why I document these type of things on our blog.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-10242007726254384212010-06-19T08:22:00.001-07:002010-06-19T08:24:21.292-07:003rd street promenade & venice beach<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6_gSc6yx8PCBjuPKQKc7uWER5gRm9QRmk_e4lYGN5NrprYfHR8XUSwjVZbSoRqgHoiOMq17Dwd5L8cD6xyFWLgVIMb17RO3Qw4loXaQABdo5GPqLrZ5yrY175eHcj-Ok3o09ZAENgrYw/s1600/IMG_0964.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEh6_gSc6yx8PCBjuPKQKc7uWER5gRm9QRmk_e4lYGN5NrprYfHR8XUSwjVZbSoRqgHoiOMq17Dwd5L8cD6xyFWLgVIMb17RO3Qw4loXaQABdo5GPqLrZ5yrY175eHcj-Ok3o09ZAENgrYw/s320/IMG_0964.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5484505931811296722" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDwjm6lpVEu7WYcdo2ID_Cfw47wp2ENz1daNc0PTJqlFazxqZcuQ5tCfpcikspPe3V6r8hBisdByU-OrImz_hYGCDc7lvpn_c2fyDbgga40cY6Y9GaVCQBXnTUkLJ-scy-lrB-lYsGGmg/s1600/IMG_0901.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgDwjm6lpVEu7WYcdo2ID_Cfw47wp2ENz1daNc0PTJqlFazxqZcuQ5tCfpcikspPe3V6r8hBisdByU-OrImz_hYGCDc7lvpn_c2fyDbgga40cY6Y9GaVCQBXnTUkLJ-scy-lrB-lYsGGmg/s320/IMG_0901.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5484505922802897346" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAZ-RRuvNr0mYo9DNq1nqKwO_V6MrCmzIxmUbggoAznZrGUAOOZLr7Iwt2ANRbm48LoB9o0bbVwQ5M4iDHsREU6fWWqRY2FUW5iWJ4Wm8TnS0mAHMfu89rE-k3TLXH-ZQITN9qr9nVrdA/s1600/IMG_0930.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiAZ-RRuvNr0mYo9DNq1nqKwO_V6MrCmzIxmUbggoAznZrGUAOOZLr7Iwt2ANRbm48LoB9o0bbVwQ5M4iDHsREU6fWWqRY2FUW5iWJ4Wm8TnS0mAHMfu89rE-k3TLXH-ZQITN9qr9nVrdA/s320/IMG_0930.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5484505910359042178" /></a>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-1033038149944929822010-06-19T08:09:00.000-07:002010-06-19T08:22:13.838-07:00chicago<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhekZohmD4V1rTFUH9jiUxA_bYqDis4PE0uZLjdA83z2la7_AT0riO7qbW-MVEdYcA-AlBMyOdPHSXCtT6VZuFkegtLsORzxbA5Ds_soW1OT_R4Q80vrhKXyk4NvMJNH7IZVjbGINIjYgs/s1600/IMG_0808.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhekZohmD4V1rTFUH9jiUxA_bYqDis4PE0uZLjdA83z2la7_AT0riO7qbW-MVEdYcA-AlBMyOdPHSXCtT6VZuFkegtLsORzxbA5Ds_soW1OT_R4Q80vrhKXyk4NvMJNH7IZVjbGINIjYgs/s320/IMG_0808.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5484504961326218498" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Michigan Ave. Congress Plaza Hotel</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIbp9B6UNebfitLuoXzlndbklD4NMDGi0sjn5G1XrMf83_RTptOq4MZnI-9g-32IcmAkCRKpJinQqZmtx_mWNr-uVF9xS-zk3rtQmJh6l9rSGUhaSg4Kv9E7qbt1iwUezTk_yuERmkEuk/s1600/IMG_0802.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhIbp9B6UNebfitLuoXzlndbklD4NMDGi0sjn5G1XrMf83_RTptOq4MZnI-9g-32IcmAkCRKpJinQqZmtx_mWNr-uVF9xS-zk3rtQmJh6l9rSGUhaSg4Kv9E7qbt1iwUezTk_yuERmkEuk/s320/IMG_0802.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5484504952489426242" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Chicago won the Stanley Cup. Lots of Hockey items all over the city.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUNbQVErP5eigUhpcvEev-Q1un6PlC4pUe27NbwZ9DP60OjM8OJLp9KESF9yeCnw6wKkk2PcAGeBBzGKCuKeikjIM7iWdaE71wEJYIqjrbxgrV8WKHIC-scpALizGxMTXZM5gA3bRlXQE/s1600/IMG_0503.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjUNbQVErP5eigUhpcvEev-Q1un6PlC4pUe27NbwZ9DP60OjM8OJLp9KESF9yeCnw6wKkk2PcAGeBBzGKCuKeikjIM7iWdaE71wEJYIqjrbxgrV8WKHIC-scpALizGxMTXZM5gA3bRlXQE/s320/IMG_0503.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5484504941359081170" /></a><div style="text-align: center;">Unique market in Lincoln Park. Gluten free products.</div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>The trip was way too short. There were so many different neighborhoods I needed to visit and not nearly enough time. While in Chicago I was doing market & trend research; people watching, shopping, checking out colors, patterns, materials, window displays and the overall fashion scene in Chicago. I took the subway to lincoln park and lakeview... that was an adventure got lost and had to take 4 subways! I enjoyed this area, it is hip & clean and the homes are adorable. I could have spent an entire day just these two neighborhoods walking up and down all the streets. In the afternoon I headed to wicker park. I loved the shopping over here! Unfortunately by the time I arrived I only had 1 hour to check out the shops before they closed. The street is lined with many vintage, thrift, and boutique shops intermixed with random cafes. I was so sad I could not visit the vintage shops (tear). Next time I will plan to visit this area for an entire day! It is very trendy and young cool people live around here. I spent my last day on michigan ave and state street walking the streets and checking out displays. Chicago is such a fun city! I loved the chicagans... so friendly and the food was so yummy! Found a great market with gluten free products and loved the gluten free italian eatery in wicker park.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-7385962166869371712010-06-14T09:18:00.001-07:002010-06-14T09:18:41.138-07:00Jetting awayReady to board our jet blue flight . Direct to Chicago! Traveling with my coworker Noriko, she just arrived from japan.<br /><br /><center><a href='http://picasaweb.google.com/100127756735953591355/LovingLifeTogether?authkey=Gv1sRgCP2n8JKit67PLA#5482664560553613282'><img src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEj4OZiR21k97H7iPv_jdy8KViILHD4HjklTirjqoGDkM-_JEWoXxbIWCtaVqbB52bsaR63u4ZWupaQshGS2WlyMBvwEydhyHLc0ANCR7oPirTxXyCdtAVap2EQCgva5JZQFmartTgeVc2U/s288/iphone_photo.jpg' border='0' width='210' height='281' style='margin:5px'></a></center><br />- Posted using BlogPress from my iPhone<br />Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-29690507814834885922010-06-13T19:29:00.001-07:002010-06-13T19:32:31.178-07:00I'm off<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiY7dO3DpND3U-ROZ8-lDlzdkOOlVivpf88ZsiQACOB7JRjGny7SaiGRVsEeHDZem24cfYI9Eq_UZB_DOT_BEb_aO96EYaFtIr5eaSUsDJgi1jiYZ0WHRb6xunBPRwurUwQ6TQVblubRCc/s1600/IMG_5654.JPG"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 240px; height: 320px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiY7dO3DpND3U-ROZ8-lDlzdkOOlVivpf88ZsiQACOB7JRjGny7SaiGRVsEeHDZem24cfYI9Eq_UZB_DOT_BEb_aO96EYaFtIr5eaSUsDJgi1jiYZ0WHRb6xunBPRwurUwQ6TQVblubRCc/s320/IMG_5654.JPG" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5482451103225350418" /></a>to Chicago for lots of market research, shopping, photographing, interviewing, and walking. It's a tough job but someone's got to do it. Glad it's me! I LOVE shopping and people watching and of course talking to all kinds of people, so it is perfect for me.Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8309574613518589526.post-39591425960416152892010-06-07T21:40:00.001-07:002010-06-13T19:22:06.147-07:00Memorial Day weekend<div>We had so much fun all weekend. The weather was perfect! A great kick off to the season of summer. Lots of BBQ's, time spent with many different friends, visitors from arizona, a baby blessing, and ofcourse the beach.</div><div style="text-align: center;">timmy.jeremy.sean</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgf_x6CGsbJCqa301LC0vgYhM_G1KYHj9G9KXDM6P_2SCP3K1xCDPVncxwloX_GPouIqmuawyd58J0YH-LiBFlKQK9-HxmZHpq7A0yvqGbtLYF0mDWG3unzlVcR90up1aPzXaaoG8eNS4Q/s1600/29752_921283867681_10024515_52683817_4761634_s.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 130px; height: 98px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgf_x6CGsbJCqa301LC0vgYhM_G1KYHj9G9KXDM6P_2SCP3K1xCDPVncxwloX_GPouIqmuawyd58J0YH-LiBFlKQK9-HxmZHpq7A0yvqGbtLYF0mDWG3unzlVcR90up1aPzXaaoG8eNS4Q/s320/29752_921283867681_10024515_52683817_4761634_s.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5482448286426500114" /></a><br /><div><div style="text-align: center;">this does not happen very often! me relaxing.</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDcsuIU6drTkb1wpR9aOUXmNIs3jL-7x9p_hLROtHeHgExdqi1-a7jvNOb4ASc90mHobsUdiNpS6NOHTyPffSNjOXN7rkiLwMAL7dGJ_QRKdv0p0Q0ITDJpO-imc_7n6imTXDTDPoHlLQ/s1600/29752_921283882651_10024515_52683818_7925085_n.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDcsuIU6drTkb1wpR9aOUXmNIs3jL-7x9p_hLROtHeHgExdqi1-a7jvNOb4ASc90mHobsUdiNpS6NOHTyPffSNjOXN7rkiLwMAL7dGJ_QRKdv0p0Q0ITDJpO-imc_7n6imTXDTDPoHlLQ/s320/29752_921283882651_10024515_52683818_7925085_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5482447528408016226" /></a><br /></div><div><div style="text-align: center;">The gang at the Shore.</div><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWYsIj433YddAfVOgT4aceyrYp2YHY9lyzYGnMpmyyWNIK984AhipPrD-rTn6z5YtEKa221OSC6fhE7-mmfYUt_jX3BJAoWPGbCr-nnqOLfhzXQ2RFaShfym4qzf6wI0VrO-TPMNrnXmA/s1600/29752_921283498421_10024515_52683791_3270662_n.jpg" style="text-decoration: none;"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px; height: 240px;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWYsIj433YddAfVOgT4aceyrYp2YHY9lyzYGnMpmyyWNIK984AhipPrD-rTn6z5YtEKa221OSC6fhE7-mmfYUt_jX3BJAoWPGbCr-nnqOLfhzXQ2RFaShfym4qzf6wI0VrO-TPMNrnXmA/s320/29752_921283498421_10024515_52683791_3270662_n.jpg" border="0" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5482447523079446578" /></a></div>Unknownnoreply@blogger.com0